Sunday, July 20, 2008

Best Friends


My 20th High School Reunion will be held next month. Wow! I can’t believe 20 years have passed already. It seems like only yesterday that I walked across that high school auditorium to grab that diploma. (Madison High School Class of 1988)

My wife will tell you that I’ve been giddy with excitement lately, anticipating the connection with some old friends. She, however, does not share my enthusiasm for this event. I can’t say that I blame her. She mentioned something about not getting a second chance to make a first impression. As soon as she mentioned that, it struck a chord in my own heart because there was a time when I tried to please all people, all the time. In fact, I still struggle with trying to please others most of the time (have a hard time saying NO). I guess we all have a deep-down desire to be affirmed, liked, and recognized. I love my wife – unconditionally. I accept her just as she is. She’s an amazing woman who’s taught me so much about love and life.

Thank you, Lord, for bringing such a wonderful woman into my life. And thank you, Laurie, you’re my best friend!


P.S. You can read the “rest of the story” at It All Started at Kent State University

1 comment:

Will Piper said...

Hey Jeff,
Thanks for sharing this post. It reminds me so much of my relationship with Jeni. Jeni grew up living in San Antonio, Chicago, and northern Wisconsin. I have always been rooted in Milwaukee, and henceforth, a lot of our friends are from the Milwaukee area and are high school friends of mine and their spouses. I was the 5 and 10 year reunion chairperson for my school and I appreciate the excitement you have for your reunion as well as the scariness that your wife might have (Jeni was in the same boat).

Thanks again for posting and take care,

WIll